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Hump Day Wednesday!

posted at 4/25/2012 9:07 AM EDT on theknot.com
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It's Hump Day...Now’s the time for Vents, Open Letters and Confessions....Get it off your chest!

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Confession: I called the wedding off because we got into a REALLY big argument over the weekend...and I'm not even sad! 

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OMG Bliss, that's a big deal. I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm glad you seem to be ok!  Do you think there's any hope of salvaging things?

My confession is that I feel like a bad friend b/c I'm SICK TO DEATH of hearing my one friend's sob stories about guys.  She's perpetually single and once I actually saw her with the last guy she was dating, now I know why.  I feel terrible thinking this way, but the constant "woe is me" was already on my nerves, and now it's at the point where I don't even want to call her.  Ugh.
Glad I got that out. LOL
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

posted at 4/25/2012 9:28 AM EDT on theknot.com
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Confession: I called the wedding off because we got into a REALLY big argument over the weekend...and I'm not even sad! 
Posted by BlissPhilly


Oh! Are you ok? Can you guys work it out? Hope you're ok!
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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Confession: I called the wedding off because we got into a REALLY big argument over the weekend...and I'm not even sad! 
Posted by BlissPhilly


I'm so sorry to hear! Are you just postponing the planning or is the relationship over? I hope everything is okay!

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Thanks Ladies. Yeah, it's over...I'm more upset about calling my vendors...I tried cancelling at the reception venue without giving details but then they wanted to know if it was something they did wrong so then I had to explain it to them...ugggh. The dress shop is like "you still have to finish paying for your dress wedding or no wedding", I closed our joint bank account they wanted to know "why"..uggh...another videographer reached out to me saying that he hasn't heard from my ex and I had to tell him. I still have to contact the ceremony site and the photographer I LOVED them BOTH So MUCH I don't want to have to cancel them uuggghh but I have to...

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I'm so sorry to hear this.  I don't even know what to say other than that. :(
Do you care to share what happened?  It's obviously none of our business, so if not, I'm sure everyone would completely understand.  It's just so sudden.
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I'm so sorry Bliss! That really sucks, I hope you're ok.



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Confession: I called the wedding off because we got into a REALLY big argument over the weekend...and I'm not even sad! 
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posted at 4/25/2012 11:24 AM EDT on theknot.com
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In Response to Re: Hump Day Wednesday!:
Thanks Ladies. Yeah, it's over...I'm more upset about calling my vendors...I tried cancelling at the reception venue without giving details but then they wanted to know if it was something they did wrong so then I had to explain it to them...ugggh. The dress shop is like "you still have to finish paying for your dress wedding or no wedding", I closed our joint bank account they wanted to know "why"..uggh...another videographer reached out to me saying that he hasn't heard from my ex and I had to tell him. I still have to contact the ceremony site and the photographer I LOVED them BOTH So MUCH I don't want to have to cancel them uuggghh but I have to...
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Awww Bliss. I am so sorry to hear that. Maybe you can go to counseling and hash out your differences. HOWEVER; as a divorcee' when the man shows you his true colors the first time believe them! Losing deposits is a small price to pay versus a lifetime of agony.
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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I keep closing out and coming back thinking this was a joke!  So sorry to hear Bliss.  Lots of hugs to you.

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Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that, Bliss. I am sending hugs your way. When was your date? If you can't get your money back, can you have a big party, or have your photog take some shots of just you, maybe you and your bff? 
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that Bliss. It's good that you aren't sad, but if you *do* get sad once the anger from the fight wears off, we're here for you if you want to talk.

I mean, there's still plenty of time before September 2013 for you to find a new groom so you don't have to cancel your vendors ;)

Kidding, obviously. I'm really sorry you have to deal with this.
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that Bliss! :-(
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that Bliss. It's good that you aren't sad, but if you *do* get sad once the anger from the fight wears off, we're here for you if you want to talk. I mean, there's still plenty of time before September 2013 for you to find a new groom so you don't have to cancel your vendors ;) Kidding, obviously. I'm really sorry you have to deal with this.
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LOL...I just spit juice all over my computer monitor! haahaaa thanks for the humor, I needed that :)

Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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In Response to Re: Hump Day Wednesday! : LOL...I just spit juice all over my computer monitor! haahaaa thanks for the humor, I needed that :)
Posted by BlissPhilly


Glad I could help :)

My confession is that I really don't like one of the little girls I nanny for. It's really ridiculous of me, she's only 17 months old, she's a baby... but I don't like her. I've been watching her every week since August and we just have no bond, she doesn't have much of a personality, she doesn't talk or babble like most kids her age... And no, I don't think there's anything wrong with her, like autism... I just think that's how she is. The job ends in June and I'm not going to miss her at all. I do like her older sister a lot though, which is partially why I kept the job. Plus, it's pretty easy and I need the money. It's only a once a week job though, so maybe if I were here every day, she would be different.
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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I'm so sorry! I give you a lot of credit for realizing it and calling it off though, you must be a very strong person!

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My confession is since I don't have a "bridal party" I won't be having a bridal shower and I realllllly want one!
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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My confession is since I don't have a "bridal party" I won't be having a bridal shower and I realllllly want one!
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Anyone can throw you a bridal shower, it doesn't have to be your bridal party. I've heard of people's mom's, aunts, other friends etc. throwing them. Unfortunately, you can't really ask, someone has to offer.
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In Response to Re: Hump Day Wednesday!:
In Response to Re: Hump Day Wednesday! : Anyone can throw you a bridal shower, it doesn't have to be your bridal party. I've heard of people's mom's, aunts, other friends etc. throwing them. Unfortunately, you can't really ask, someone has to offer.
Posted by angelstar975


See this is the tricky part. I usually host and coordinate all the events in my family and my friend's circle. I don't think it would even dawn on them to throw me one.
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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Thank you Everyone for your kind words.

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In Response to Re: Hump Day Wednesday!:
Confession: I called the wedding off because we got into a REALLY big argument over the weekend...and I'm not even sad! 
Posted by BlissPhilly


So sorry to hear Bliss...but I'm proud that you're being so strong about it all!
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Re: Hump Day Wednesday!

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Omg Bliss! I'm so sorry :-( I'm glad you seem to be taking it in stride though.
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